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Wesley's Story

Wesley received a 1 year gym membership and personal training sessions from the foundation.
AaronHello, my name is Wesley. I am on hemodialysis and have been for almost three years.

I would like to give you a summary of my life before dialysis. I am an ex-marine. I came out of the Marines in 1971. At that time I weighed 195 pounds. I got married in 1973. I went to work in the coal mines until 1979. In 1978 I joined the Marshall County Office of Emergency Services as a volunteer. We handled things like floods and catastrophes of many kinds. I was also with the Marshall County Rescue Squad. We responded to accidents when the jaws of life were needed and applied first aid as needed. We were on call 24/7. In 1994 I joined the Marshall County Search Team. We were called to search for lost or missing persons. In 1996, I got a Rottweiler and trained him for search work. I was in charge of the search team for a period of time and was the K-9 trainer. All of these activities required a lot of physical activity, mainly a lot of walking. I love training the dogs and working with the people. I really liked that job. It ended in 2003.

I don’t want to seem like I’m braggadocios as Marines are, they have a mind set that they can do anything. Needless to say my mind is willing, but my body is saying no, no, no. I hate the fact that I am all screwed up. If I wasn’t I would still be out there doing that work. What I once was, and what I am today is by far two different people. I used to have drive that was unbeatable, and as that Marine I spoke about I could do anything and win at any cost. I am no longer built like a Tee; I am built more on the order of an O or a cantaloupe. I think if I had someone to push me, kind of ride me like a drill instructor, it may snap me back into good enough shape that my attitude would better represent what I used to be.

My back and my knees are giving me a lot of problems and walking for exercise is out of the question. It was made to mention about me going to the fitness center. I think it is a very good idea. Because it hurts seeing myself be torn down day in and day out. I feel that if I could exercise in the swimming pool it would be less stress on the joints and would help me lose weight. With a trainer pushing me to exercise would keep me more motivated. I need exercise badly, but I am not getting due to pain. So, I feel that the pool would do me a world of good. If I went there I feel I would be healthier.

The people here are really nice. I just think they don’t fully understand me and my background. I think sometimes they don’t want to get close cuase they know our time is short and they don’t want their feelings hurts. They tell me it’s not and try to invoke good cheer. But as a born again, spirit-filled Christian, I have made my preparation and peace with God and if anything happens I know where I will spend eternity. I don’t want to, but I think it’s always good to stay one step ahead of the ball game. But that’s just me.

To everyone that reads this, to you my hope is that you will know the Lord as your personal savior and to know that Jesus came and dies for you as well as me.
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